Nanda - Bangalore

Name: Nanda
Comments: Hello Sir,

I was married on Nov-17-2004, stayed with her for less than 3 days, i got to know their family is a fraud, i was cheated. they played their games well, their father is not the real father, mother in law had an affair with her husband’s brother and had 2 daughters, everything about their family is rotten. the language they use is worse than slum, They want me to stay with them at their place, want to take care of their industry, leave my parents, the girl supposed to have done MBA, was not even able to produce 10th grade certificate, what do i do ? I expected 2 things one is….A well educated girl, other one is, girl should be from a good family background…..both were not met, they just wanted to make me a scapegoat, i fell in their trap.
they threatened me to live with them i said no to that, the girl and i got separated in a week’s time, she left to her mom’s place and started torturing me by calling me every nite, she wanted to meet her in park, if not she would want me to come to policestation, she would call up at nite and say, she loves me, she had cut her wrist and blood is flowing, and she wants to speak to me for the last time, she used all tricks, when i said i can’t meet her in park, she under the influence of her mom, lodged not one, three complaints against me and my family, then later somehow i agreed, i convinced her that i will live with her at her house, so she withdrew the complaints, but however since i did not go to her place, she threatened again, and this time we received a direct summon from the court on Nov 15 2006 to appear on Nov 17 2006…..
Am the only son for my parents, have 2 elder sisters both are married, am the only earning member, living in a rented house, its very difficult to bear the expenses, am running a huge debt already, now this is another one burden, i am not able to cope up, my parents always cry, am not able to see them , I am not able to concentrate on my work, am not able to do anything, i have lost interest, infact had tried to kill myself, but since i have old parents to look after i changed my mind, i need help, pls stop this harassment…kindly someone assist, as i type this , tears are rolling down my cheeks,

I have no idea what to do ? or what will happen tomorrow ?
I might lose the job as well…..please somebody assist me and my family….we are dying every second, every minute and every day…..just imagine am a person who goes to office and be bk at home on time, including my neighbours dont know my name….am made to stand in the court along with criminals…..Why this treatment, I haven’t even smoked in my life, havent boozed, havent done anything wrong in my life…Why ? why why? am made to suffer, i didnt even marry of my own choice, its an arranged marriage, why i have to suffer, why my parents have to suffer ? why all ? am going mad…someone please assist…..